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Interview with Elizabeth Anderson

Recently Elizabeth had the opportunity speak with nationally syndicated radio host Kate Delaney on the Author’s Corner segment of America Tonight. They discussed what motivated Elizabeth to write The Thoughtful Proclaimer and how reading the Bible as literature inspired her to develop The Thoughtful Proclaimer method of preparing Bible messages. Hear how authorial intent – understanding what the message means to the people to whom it was written and what it means to God – guide our preparation of impactful Bible messages which transform us first in the process. Elizabeth also discusses what she learned and experienced through teaching The Thoughtful Proclaimer method in Nigeria.

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A Return on His Investment

Matthew records for us 5 stories that Jesus told to help us be prepared for the last days and Jesus’ second coming to earth. Set amongst these stories that Jesus tells is what is often called, “The Parable of the Talents.” I’ve taught this in Sunday School to children, but in reality, it is a very scary story.

Jesus says that when he comes again it will be like this: Matthew 25:14–30 “For it will be like a man going on a journey, who called his servants and entrusted to them his property. To one he gave five talents, to another two, to another one, to each according to his ability. Then he went away. He who had received the five talents went at once and traded with them, and he made five talents more. So also he who had the two talents made two talents more. But he who had received the one talent went and dug in the ground and hid his master’s money. Now after a long time the master of those servants came and settled accounts with them. And he who had received the five talents came forward, bringing five talents more, saying, ‘Master, you delivered to me five talents; here, I have made five talents more.’ His master said to him, ‘Well done, good and faithful servant. You have been faithful over a little; I will set you over much. Enter into the joy of your master.’ And he also who had the two talents came forward, saying, ‘Master, you delivered to me two talents; here, I have made two talents more.’ His master said to him, ‘Well done, good and faithful servant. You have been faithful over a little; I will set you over much. Enter into the joy of your master.’ He also who had received the one talent came forward, saying, ‘Master, I knew you to be a hard man, reaping where you did not sow, and gathering where you scattered no seed, so I was afraid, and I went and hid your talent in the ground. Here, you have what is yours.’ But his master answered him, ‘You wicked and slothful servant! You knew that I reap where I have not sown and gather where I scattered no seed? Then you ought to have invested my money with the bankers, and at my coming I should have received what was my own with interest. So take the talent from him and give it to him who has the ten talents. For to everyone who has will more be given, and he will have an abundance. But from the one who has not, even what he has will be taken away. And cast the worthless servant into the outer darkness. In that place there will be weeping and gnashing of teeth.’”

Notice, the king is not giving them gifts but entrusting his servants with his personal property. He is trusting his servants with an investment. All of our talents, our wealth, our spiritual gifts are not ours, they are our master’s property given to us to manage until he returns. What a high amount of trust the Master is placing in us! Never more than we could handle, but just enough. How much am I returning on the investment Christ has blessed me with?

Well, the first thing I want to know, is why did the master trust one servant with 5 talents, one servant with 2 talents, and 1 servant with only 1? Right off the bat, I’m thinking that’s not fair. But interestingly enough, it is said that the master knew the abilities of his subjects. He gave them just what they could handle. In a sense, he gave them the same, the amount they could handle.

I’ve always thought of myself as a 2 talent Christian, surely not a 5 talent Christian like Billy Graham or someone. And not a 1 talent Christian because God has blessed me from top to bottom in so many ways. And so, as a 2 talent Christian, I tend to think that I can invest part time. 5 talent Christians must invest in the kingdom of God full time but us mere 2 talent folks can do a little for God because he’ll only expect a 2 talent return.

But what I missed was that the master is looking for a 100% return from each of his servants. Whether we are 5 or 2 or 1 talent Christians he expects 100 percent return on the talents, the blessings, the spiritual gifts he has given us. And when I consider everything God has blessed me with, maybe I am a 5 talent servant, just a lazy one. How much am I returning on Christ’s investment in me?

That is why this is scary. The older we get the closer we get to a meeting with our maker, the metaphoric return of the master. The more we’re blessed with, the more we are responsible to give back to the master on His return.

Are we to live in fear? I think so. I think we are meant to live with a healthy respect for the return of the master. That is what this parable is calling for. Yes, God’s grace abounds (there is a talent) and our sins are forgiven (another talent) but that grace and that forgiveness simply means we have more responsibility, we’ve been invested with more. Jesus didn’t tell just one story about preparing for the end to his disciples, he told five. None of them are warm and fuzzy but alert us to our accountability. How much am I returning on Christ’s investment in me?

Christ has invested us with spiritual gifts, with talents, with minds, with belongings, with loved ones and friends, with varying degrees of health. What percent return are we ready to present on the investment in us.

How do we know what is a return on the investment? Our percentage return is what is done with eternal significance. Some of the other 4 stories in Matthew 24 and 25 spell it out for us. These ways to build on Christ’s investment begin with being willing to endure persecution for his sake while the master is gone, Mt. 24.13; staying alert and being ready for the return of the master, Mt. 24:42-44, Mt. 25:1-13; and the spiritual care for and feeding of Christ’s other servants, Mt. 24:45-47;

But finally, the most straightforward, clear command of how to build up Christ’s investment is spelled out in “The Parable of the Sheep and Goats” Matthew 25:35-40: For I was hungry and you gave me food, I was thirsty and you gave me drink, I was a stranger and you welcomed me, I was naked and you clothed me, I was sick and you visited me, I was in prison and you came to me.’ Then the righteous will answer him, saying, ‘Lord, when did we see you hungry and feed you, or thirsty and give you drink? And when did we see you a stranger and welcome you, or naked and clothe you? And when did we see you sick or in prison and visit you?’ And the King will answer them, ‘Truly, I say to you, as you did it to one of the least of these my brothers, you did it to me.’ Caring for “the least of these” is not only building on Christ’s investment in us but is caring for Jesus Christ incognito. What we do for Christ , His servants, and those in need will last for eternity.

Jesus’ disciple Peter, one who had heard this story from Jesus’ own lips later wrote this:1 Peter 4:10–11 As each has received a gift, use it to serve one another, as good stewards of God’s varied grace: whoever speaks, as one who speaks oracles of God; whoever serves, as one who serves by the strength that God supplies—in order that in everything God may be glorified through Jesus Christ. To him belong glory and dominion forever and ever. Amen.

Some of us have 5 talents, some have 2, some have 1, but no believer has not been invested in by God. I remember my grandmother when she was quite elderly. She could barely get around, she could no longer attend church, she couldn’t even sleep well. So she used her one talent left, the ability to pray for others. In those hours between bedtime and morning, she pray for each of her family members and different ministries. The next day she sent letters of encouragement to us and to radio preachers who had blessed her with their sermons as she lay awake at night listening  to them on her transistor radio. Though her ability was diminished she brought a huge return on Christ’s investment in her life. She took 1 talent and turned it into 10.

When Jesus returns, what will you and I have to show for the investment, the talents, the blessing he has given us? Am I really only a 1 or 2 talent Christian or am I a 5 talent Christian who has some work to do in the kingdom of God? How much will I return on Christ’s investment in me?

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As Iron Sharpens Iron

One of my hobbies is reading biographies of missionaries. I thrill to the tales of travel, commitment, and faith in the face of extreme uncertainty. Recently, I read the biography of and some books by Watchman Nee. Watchman Nee, or Ni Tuosheng (Watchman was a name he gave himself because he felt he was called to raise the warning call in a dark world). I felt a strong connection to Nee, perhaps because for a time we were both connected to the Plymouth Brethren movement and probably as a result of that, we both chafed at a clergy-lay distinction, believing that a plurality of elders brought great wisdom. We both believe that it is through studying the Scriptures and teaching others to do so will build the Kingdom of God. And also, as anyone who knows me can tell you, I’ve had a strong interest in China and Chinese Christians my entire life.

I learned that Watchman Nee focused on building deeply spiritual Christians as a way to build churches. He is credited with starting the church movement in China though he spent the last twenty years of his life in prison for his faith. Watchman Nee wasn’t what we think of as a missionary really, his ministry was to his own people and in his own country. Though his grandfather was the first Chinese pastor among the Congregationalists in northern Fukien province, Watchman was led to the Lord Jesus by a woman, Dora Yu, a prominant Chinese evangelist at the time. While in college, he sought a mentor to teach him about how to be a deep and spiritually alive Christian.

The thing that thrilled me most about Watchman’s story was that the teacher he chose for himself was a British woman, old enough to be his mother. This woman, Margaret Barber, had a Bible school near the college Tuoshung attended. She inspired Watchman with her radical devotion to the cross and her unflagging passion for God’s Word. (Laurent, Bob. Watchman Nee: Sufferer for China. Barbour Publishing, Kindle Edition, 29.) When Watchman first approached Margaret she asked herself, could Tuosheng be an answer to my prayer?…If so, I will sharpen him as iron sharpens iron. (Laurent, Bob. Watchman Nee: Sufferer for China, 30.)

Watchman Nee never attended a theological school, but like A.W. Tozer and Charles Spurgeon he taught himself by studying the Word of God, submitting himself to mentor’s like Margaret Barber, and by reading the works of thousands of other Christian writers.

His personal testimony recorded on October 20, 1936 describes his personal commission: “When the Lord called me to serve Him, the prime object was not for me to hold revival meetings so that people might hear more scriptural doctrines, nor for me to become a great evangelist. The Lord revealed to me that He wanted to build up local churches in other localities to manifest Himself, to bear testimony of unity on the ground of locality so that each saint might perform his duty in the church and live the church life. God wants not merely individual pursuit of victory or spirituality, but a corporate, glorious church presented to Himself.” (for quote see http://www.watchmannee.org/life-ministry and various other sources).

The story of Watchman Nee and Margaret Barber continues to inspire me as a teacher called not only to teach the Word but to teach other how to teach the Word in their local churches and Bible studies. Watchman Nee became a great man of God and church planter by choosing to submit himself to the teaching of a godly woman, by discipling others, and by building up the church of Jesus Christ around the world. This is how the kingdom of God grows; by women and men teaching and sharpening one another, studying the Word of God together, and building the Kingdom of God together.

If you want to know more about women who ministered in China read the heroic stories of Lottie Moon and Gladys Aylward.

Elizabeth Anderson @ThoughtfulProclaimer.com

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Deep or Wide? Small Ministries Can Leave A Big Impact for Eternity

The Israelite’s made piles of stones to remember what God had done for them in a particular place. Not huge towers like Babel but 12 stones piled where they would be seen and where people would pass by and remember what God did in that place. A simple pile of stones, when remembered and rehearsed brought a lasting impact as many people celebrated what God did in that place over the years.

When we teach our classes and congregations, whether of 5, 12, or 100 people, we often worry it is not enough. Just a small pile of stones. We feel that to have a big impact for the Kingdom of God, we need more people, bigger ministries. But we do not know the impact of our small words for eternity. Perhaps one person who hears our Bible message will be transformed and affect 10, 1000, or 10,000 others. On and on it goes, spreading over the years. This is what happens when God is at work in our ministry, when the teaching is Biblical and empowered by the Holy Spirit a 12 words can have a lasting impact. That is what deep ministry looks like, transformational, replicating, growing deeper if not always visibly wider. Deep Bible teaching can grow a still deep ministry wider invisibly. No one but God may ever know on this earth the impact being had.

George Verwer, who founded Operation Mobilization, a mission organization that is worldwide and over 50 years old, likes to tell the story that everything he has done in the ministry started with a neighbor lady who prayed for him when he was a young boy. One lady’s prayers have literally changed the world and spread the gospel to untold numbers of people.

Just because a ministry is small does not mean it has a small impact. Small ministries have the blessing of being able to take people deeper. Deep ministries won’t dry up and in fact can be built little by little over weeks, months, and years. It is difficult to grow very large but shallow ministries deeper. It can be done, but you can expect push back from the members. It is hard to turn a large ship.

This is not an excuse not to grow our ministries but a reminder that the Spirit blows where we cannot see and we don’t know the impact of our work until one Day we hear Christ say, “Well done good and faithful servant.”

So grow your ministry, but focus first on growing it deep for greater life transformation and worry about the wide part later.

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It’s Never too Late

It’s Never too Late

Matthew 20:1-16 recounts Jesus’s story of the workers in the vineyard who get paid the same amount whether they started early or came in late. I always thought this story was just meant for those who had been working to tend the kingdom of heaven for many years and who were jealous of those late comers who seemed to reap God’s biggest blessings. You know, the elder brothers who are jealous of the younger brother, the prodigal son’s, big party. This makes sense, of course, and is part of the message. But just prior to telling this story, Jesus says: “But many who are first will be last, and many who are last will be first.” You see, it’s never too late to answer God’s call to work in the vineyard.

In other words this parable has two points, and though one of the messages is for those of us who have worked in the vineyard, the kingdom of heaven, for our whole lives, this story is also for those of us who just started working in the vineyard recently. In the kingdom of heaven, the reward for the one who just stepped inside the garden gate and picked up a rake will be the same as the reward for the long-time faithful worker. I can’t help think that this is because the reward is so magnificent that  it doesn’t come in smaller or larger amounts-it is amazing abundant life and eternal life to come.

For me personally, it means that just because the Thoughtful Proclaimer Ministry is a new direction for me, God can bless it every bit as much as if I’d started working on it in my twenties. And in fact, God has been preparing me for this ministry since I was one of those little children who came to sit on Jesus’ lap in Matthew 19:13-15 (just a few verses earlier). It is never too late to answer God’s call to do something new.

So I will be grateful for the faithful workers in the vineyard who came early and stayed late, as well as for those who just showed up. It is never to late to start, to learn more, to begin again because in God’s vineyard, in the kingdom of heaven it’s never to late to begin. The heavenly and earthly rewards are equally as complete, equally as full and abundant for both.

If you have been called to preach or teach the Bible, it’s never too late to prepare for ministry, to learn, or to improve. It’s never too late to do God’s work. That is why the Thoughtful Proclaimer Method is available too all, not just for those who started early or who went to seminary, but for all those who are called by the Master to work in His vineyard.

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Disappointed With God

Once upon a time there was a gardener.  And when spring came that gardener worked very hard and planted flowers and vegetables.  All summer the gardener played and swam and waited for God to make her garden grow. 

And in the fall the gardener went to her garden and BEHOLD the flowers were scraggly from neglect and had dried up.  The green beans had produced mightily but since no one picked them the beans had become hard and brown.  The only tomatoes that were left were rotted on the ground.  And the gardener was sorely disappointed with God.

 And the gardener complained to God that he had not cared for the garden.  She complained about the flowers-though in fact they had been quite beautiful but were now a mess due to neglect.  She complained to God about the beans-though in fact there had been plenty enough for her and the whole neighborhood had they only been picked regularly.  She complained to God about the tomatoes but the creatures of the garden, the rabbits and the ground squirrels, were full and happily.  But God was silent.

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Unseen

UNSEEN

 

Usually, if you can’t see it, it’s not there.  Unless you believe in God and then you know that there is a lot going on that you can’t see, which is, quite frankly, a little scary.  As often as we remind ourselves that God is at work in unseen ways, it seems a little iffy.  What if we could see the network that the Holy Spirit has built, the interconnections that are going on? John 3:8 Talk about six degrees of separation, I bet there isn’t even one degree of separation if we could only see as God does.  We are all connected in the supernatural realm.  How fun when we meet someone and find how connected we are.* Take my husband for instance.  40 years ago I had never heard of him though our circles of family and friends were actually overlapping.  But God had and the Spirit moved in meticulous, imperceptible ways to bring us together, all orchestrated with the perfect timing of the master conductor of the world.

This morning as I drank my coffee outside, I could see all sorts of invisible little strings, links from one thing to another.  The tiny threads had been there for days, but I had not been able to see them.  Somehow, just the way the sun was shining and the wind was blowing made them suddenly detectible.  The more I looked the more of them I found.  The links from place to place shimmered all around me, from one flower to a chair to the bush to the bird feeder to the rose.  There they were, suddenly visible where I had seen nothing yesterday.  I hate to call them cobwebs, but that is exactly what they were.  Tiny filaments tracing the path of an  insect that had jumped from the top of the umbrella down to the table and left a bit of himself in a cord to show that yes, he had been there.  Very thin, but long fibers placed from here to there, heretofore unseen though they had been there all along.  No move of the spider was left unrecorded and no space left unfilled.  A maze of invisible connections that suddenly appeared to show what had been going on all summer behind the scenes practically under my very nose but completely unbeknownst to me.

It reminded me of the way the Holy Spirit works, blowing here and there, sometimes spinning webs for purposes unknown to me now.  Other times the Spirit leaves a shimmering trail that I can only see in hindsight and if I’m very still and quiet, allowing the light of the Son and the breath of the Spirit to bring the unseen into focus.  I can see a bit of the unseen if I wait prayerfully and watch for that breeze to gently blow and expose the handiwork of God.

It reminded me of a story in 2 Chronicles 20:1-30 where King Jehoshaphat was afraid for his people because a great enemy army was gathering to attack.  2 Chron. 20:1-3 But Jehoshaphat “set his face to seek the LORD” and he proclaimed a great fast and all of the people, the parents and the children gathered.  2 Chron. 20:4-6 They remembered how God had saved them in the past.  They remembered how he promised that if they cried out to him he would hear.  They knew they were powerless and told Yahweh that all their eyes were on Him to see what he would do. 2 Chron. 20:7-12 Then the Holy Spirit spoke to them through a man of God and told them not to be afraid, because the battle was God’s and not theirs. 2 Chron. 20:13-17

The assembly of people bowed and worshipped the Lord.  Early in the morning they all went to hide in safety in the wilderness.  They believed in the Lord their God and worshipped and sang, “Give thanks to the LORD for his steadfast love endures forever.” They waited to see what God would do. 2 Chron. 20:18-21 As they sang, the LORD set an ambush against the army that had come to attack them.  God built an invisible web in which to catch their enemies!  In the confusion of battle the enemies from one country attacked the enemies from another and in the end the armies all killed each other.  And when the people of God looked out from their watchtower in the wilderness toward the site of the battle, they could see nothing but their foes lying dead on the ground, every one of them.  2 Chron. 20:22-24

Well it is one thing to hear about the mighty acts of God but can we trust that the God who acted in the day of Jehoshaphat is still acting on our behalf today?  Does he still save?

Jesus’ disciple Philip had his doubts.  He told Jesus that if Jesus would make God the Father visible to him then he could believe.  Jesus seems shocked at Philip.  Didn’t Philip know that If he had seen Jesus he had seen with God.  Jesus reminded Philip of the miracles he had done in plain sight, at least Philip should believe because of them. John 14:8-11 But then, Philip, who I think had trouble seeing the unseen, seeing the invisible strings that moved the world, heard something even more amazing.  Jesus said, “Really, truly, I’m telling you, that whoever believes in me will also do miracles like I did.  In fact, greater works then I did because I’m going to be in heaven with the Father.  Whatever you ask God in my name, I will do it so that God the Father is glorified through me.” John 14:12-14.

The promise Jesus gives us is that though the rest of the world will not be able to see him acting, we will be able to see it because Jesus will be living in us.  Those who know and believe will be able to see the movement of the Holy Spirit in the world.   John 14:15-21

Lord Jesus, help me to see the unseen in the world around me.  Help me to be caught up in your web and part of your plan as it leaves a trail from here to there.  Help me to count on your power to do the impossible that you would be glorified.

*(Six degrees of separation refers to the idea that everyone is on average approximately six steps away, by way of introduction, from any other person on Earth, so that a chain of “a friend of a friend” statements can be made, on average, to connect any two people in

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Start With A Punch

Start with a PUNCH!

 “The heart of the wise makes his speech judicious and adds persuasiveness to his lips.” (Proverbs 16:23)

Our messages are meant to persuade, to transform.  Whether we are preachers, teachers, or leaders, our words should be weighed to have an impact.  Garr Reynolds uses the acronym PUNCH as a device for planning your message introductions.

We always introduce a subject by explaining why it is important.  We want our listeners to know why what we are saying matters.  We plan ahead and know where we want our listeners to be when we’re done.  We want to let people know that they really want to listen because this will be good. Starting your talk with a PUNCH makes them want to hear more.  Starting with a PUNCH will knock their socks off!

In The Naked Presenter Garr Reynolds teaches that the opening of a talk should carry a PUNCH.  The acronym PUNCH helps us remember five things that the beginning of a talk might contain to make its lesson memorable.  Good openings, Garr tells us, often contain something Personal, Unexpected, Novel, Challenging, or Humorous.

Share a personal story or fact.  Making it personal helps us to initially connect with people who are listening to us.  This does not mean we are to give our resume.  Rather, by sharing a bit of ourselves, we give our topic emotional relevance to our listeners.  Another great thing about a personal story is what we don’t need notes for it.  You can tell a personal story while maintaining direct eye contact with your audience.  The personal story we tell should illustrate in some way the main point we are trying to make.  A personal story not only sets our listener at ease it set us at ease as well.

Say or do something unexpected.  Most people’s attention spans are only about 10 minutes long.  You can get them interested and hold that interest a little longer by starting with something they didn’t expect.  Everyone loves a surprise.  It might be a quote, a question, or a fact, or you might do something unexpected.

Show or tell something novel.  Include a story or statistic that no one has heard.  Use a powerful or memorable image to introduce your subject.  If you’re not going to tell people something they didn’t already know why should they have come in the first place?  Most people are listening to you because they want to learn something new or hear something original.  Everyone in your audience wants to make a discovery about themselves or God’s word.

Challenge their assumptions.  Challenge their thinking.  Challenge their intellect.  Challenge their imagination.  People come to your church, study, or class specifically to be challenged.  Don’t disappoint them!  In a Christian setting the idea of a challenge takes on even more meaning because everything we say and do has eternal significance.  If we challenge someone, it should not be only a moral challenge but also the spiritual challenge.  Our aim is not to make people better but more like Christ.  Our goal should not only be to teach people how to live but also to show them how to have eternal life.

Use humor.  Laughter not only engages your audience but disarms them as well.  Someone once said, while their mouths are open in laughter you can spoon in the medicine.  (Or they said something like that.  The idea is not original with me, that’s for sure.  But it is a good one.)  Garr warns, however, that starting with a joke usually falls flat.  He recommends forgetting about jokes and instead  make an ironic observation, share an anecdote or tell a humorous story that is relevant to your point or topic.  You tap into people’s emotions with humor.  Laughter also releases endorphins, relaxes us, and can even change our perspective a bit.  Just be sure your humor is relevant to your subject and appropriate to your audience and setting.

The prophets of the Old Testament always used a PUNCH.  As we read their sermons and writings, we see that they were masters of the unexpected, the original, and the unforgettable.  God himself taught the prophets how to do this and commanded them to use these methods to get His message across.  Think of Jeremiah in chapter 19.  The Lord told Jeremiah to go and buy a new clay jar from the potter.    (Jer. 19:1-3)  He was to take some of the elders and the priests and warn them that the God of Israel was going to bring disaster on them because they had forsaken him and worshiped other gods.  They had even burned their children in the fire as offerings to the idol Baal.  Jeremiah was to take the elders and priests to the very valley where they made the sacrifices to the idols and when he was speaking to them, he was to throw down the new pottery jar smash it to bits at their feet.  (Jer. 19:10-11)

When God wanted people to listen he never pulled punches he struck hard.   If you want your introduction to really knock them out, start with a PUNCH.

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Have a Sharp Focus to Your Teaching

Have a SHARP Focus to your Teaching

Whether you teach or preach it is important that you keep the main idea in FOCUS at all times. The main purpose of this website is to encourage and empower you to be a more effective Bible teachers or speaker, so I would like to share with you an acronym for things to add so that you communicate most effectively. Mnemonic devices are not only good for us to use in teaching others, they are also handy devices to have up our sleeve as we prepare a Bible lesson or talk.

In one of the best books I’ve read lately there is a great acronym for speakers. SHARP. I’ll give you the acronym, but you need to read the book. Give it to your college seniors, your co-workers and anyone who you sense has a lot more potential than self-confidence. It is called You’ve God to Be Believed to be Heard: The Complete Book of Speaking in Business and in Life! by Bert Decker. Okay enough of the advertising-I should get a kickback don’t you think?

When you are speaking or teaching you want to help your listeners focus on the point you are making, you want to keep their attention, and you want to make your point memorable. Make your point SHARP:

S-Stories and Examples: Jesus knew the power of story. Sometimes he didn’t even explain the story. That was Jesus. Usually, you and I should let our listeners know what our story has to do with our teaching subject.

H-Humor: You can use jokes but better yet, use your own personal brand of humor. Do you have a dry wit? I often use self-deprecating humor. Decker says that it is “virtually impossible to dislike someone who makes us laugh.” Someone has said: When their mouths are open with laughter slip in the pill of truth.

A-Analogy : Comparisons, contrasts, other things in the same category etc will help make your ideas more memorable or will help others to see or better understand your point.

R-References and Quotes: These should be written down and read. I have been known to misquote a statistic and have to email the entire group with a correction-not good. Quotes and references and validity to your statements. They help you to be believable. They can be quotes, facts, data, statistics articles or quotes from broadcasts. Personally, I would add, the shorter the better. If you want to give us a two page quote, then it is not a quote so much as you reading to us which is usually boring. Instead, give a one or two sentence quote and tell us the rest in your own words.

P-Pictures and Visual Aids: Visual material can be used to REINFORCE what you are saying. Anything that will add interest and is on point is good. People remember better what they both see and hear. “Presentations using visual aids are 43% more persuasive than unaided presentations.”-not sure what type of presentations this statistic speaks to but it is good to note. A picture is worth a thousand words. However, I have found that Power Points can distract my audience so I use them sparingly. A good rule of thumb is to use a blank black slide when you want your audience to look at you. I am learning this. A quick note on Slides, less is more (less writing, fewer slides, less information), use high contrast (black, white, red), bigger writing is better (36 font).

There is another acronym I’ll throw in for free from my Doctor of Ministry residency at Gordon Conwell Theological Seminary: Take the truth to all SEATS: use Story, Example, Analogy, Testimony, and Self-Disclosure. The addition of Testimony means that you can either find a testimony from someone else or actually have someone else give a testimony on your topic or application or point. Self-disclosure can be powerful but is tricky. You must not go so far as to cause your listeners to loose respect for you. Self-disclosure should not be something that will fuel gossip for weeks. Self-disclosure is usually most effective if it is very humble.

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When Blessings Bring a Curse

When Blessings Bring a Curse 

The scary little question I’m afraid to ask is this, why does God bless us with so much when so often those God generously blesses fall away from Him?  You’ve probably heard of King Solomon the son of King David.  He was very devout in following God and once even brought 1000 burnt offerings to worship God. ( 2 Chron. 1:6) When God asked him what Solomon wanted as a blessing, Solomon humbly asked for wisdom and knowledge to better lead the nation he was king over. (2 Chron. 1:7-10)  God gave him amazing wisdom and knowledge but also riches and honor. (2 Chron. 1:11-12)

 

Solomon used those riches and those saved by his father to build the first temple in Jerusalem. (1 Kings 6:1) At first, Solomon was a very good and wise leader and a devout follower after Yahweh. (1 Kings 8:22-23) But as his wealth and fame increased and increased and increased, the amount of THINGS he owned began to be overwhelming and in his popularity it was hard to keep a humble heart.  He lost integrity and did business with the bad guys. (2 Chron. 1:16)  He showed off in front of big wigs-especially female big wigs (like the Queen of Sheba 1 Kings 10:6-7).

 

After twenty years his wealth and popularity and business dealings had so clouded his judgment that he forgot to be generous with his old friends and business partners-the ones who had supported him and helped him get to the top. (1 Kings 9:10-12) His son who was to succeed him managed to be such a bad ruler that 10 of the 12 tribes of Israel succeeded from the nation. (1 Kings 12:10-12) Solomon’s son’s arrogance far exceeded even that of his late father.  It was only in faithfulness to his Grandfather David that God allowed Solomon’s son to rule even a part of the former nation.

Are we blessed at times in spite of ourselves because of our past faithfulness or that of our parents or grandparents?  Do we get to thinking that our wealth is due to our hard work or intelligence rather than acknowledging that God is the owner of all?  I take these stories found in 1 Kings 8-11 as more than just a cautionary tale to those of us who are greatly blessed.  How can I keep my blessings from bring a curse on my family?

 

Deuteronomy 17:14-20 lays out how a ruler should live.  I may not be a king, but I can see that these verses apply to those, like myself, who have been greatly blessed.  First, watch that you don’t forget your roots. (Dt. 17:16) Second, don’t forget your morals. (Dt. 17:17)  Third, don’t get greedy.  Fourth keep the Bible has a high priority, read it regularly, do what it says, keep learning to reverence God. (Dt. 17:18-19)  Fifth, stay humble. (Dt. 17:20) And finally, sixth, don’t break the commandments of God, in fact, don’t even turn slightly to the right of left of following them.  In this way you will remain long in your kingdom, as will your children.

 

As I read Solomon’s story I see that he systematically broke each of these guidelines.  Though he had everything on earth a person could ever want, he failed to keep his promises to God.  I don’t want to end up like King Solomon.  I don’t want my family to end up like his.  If David had seen what became of his son he must have wept. 

 

But you and I have a king of our own, King Jesus, who died and lives to keep us from the trap of sin.  Even as the rules of life given in Deuteronomy still make perfect sense in a practical way, the death of our King on the cross paid the price for the times when we break the rules.  Even though I haven’t always lived with the integrity expected of those blessed by God I can ask for and accept the forgiveness Christ offers me.  It is by the grace of God that when I find myself starting down that slippery slide to the bottom I can stop and claim the forgiveness of sins and the righteousness he gives me.  I can ask for the Holy Spirit to help me up the ladder and out of the pit and into the blessing of God again. 

 

As far as we know, Solomon did not stop his downward slide or ask for forgiveness though when he was younger he had prayed fervently that God would remain ready to forgive those who were sorry for their sins (1 Kings 8:46-51).  Solomon’s own son suffered the consequences of Solomon’s folly. (1 Kings 11:11-12)

 

In the end, our children will not remember and respect us for the money we made, the great houses we built, or the cars we drove.  What they will remember is how we prayed for them, how we lived with integrity, the way we treated the taxi driver.  The inheritance we pass on to our children is a heart that remains true to God to the end and a life of integrity. (1 Kings 9:3-5) Thank you Jesus for offering us not the ladder of success but the cross of Jesus Christ which brings forgiveness and your Spirit which offers us strength to live rightly.

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